Posted: 2017-12-07 19:06
Real answer have you really read my comment??? You too can get married have faith believe and act. As a man think with his heart so shall it be. God does not respond to pity but faith please read what these men and women did to find their spouse. It is up to you not God God has done all he is going to do we have his words and promises. I beg you do not let the enemy of your soul win. We are living in a spiritual world come against spirit of delay. Depression put on the armour of God. God bless praying for you
Hi Tina, Absolutely! I agree. I would never want any woman to settle for a man who doesn 8767 t make her happy. And as far as those jerky guys, you don 8767 t owe them anything. Being yourself with men is the best way to attract the Right Guy. After so many years of dating, and now coaching hundreds of women as they date, I see that that 8767 s actually something difficult for us to do. Our walls, anger, frustration show up. And we tend to attract the wrong guys. You sound very strong, independent and I bet you can take care of anything that comes your way. I 8767 d like you to read this article. I 8767 d love to hear your thoughts. http:///needy-women-get-the-nice-guys/ Bp
I had a neighbor exactly like this! Came outside one time during a get together and she was sitting in my husbands lap, I made her get up. Thankfully, they moved, but she happened to drop by the day before my husband was suppose to go to Korea for a year. She was drunk and we couldn 8767 t get rid of her. At one point she suggested we go upstairs for a threesome *shudder*. What I did was take her home since she was to drunk to drive. I than called her husband, a long distance trucker, and told him what his wife was up to. He ended up quitting his job to stay home to babysit his wife
When I was 75 I dated a guy who was 66 years older than me, and he was more immature than a 69 year old boy. Pretty much, he wanted me because he thought he could get away with taking me out for KFC popcorn chicken every night. He didnt want to put in effort, and thought that texting and never calling was okay. He couldn 8767 t mentally handle a 85 year old woman, so he went for ones. Those types of men are a red flag, As proven by the couple of goofballs who replied to your comment.
Thanks for sharing your story. Yes, I understand why your confused. Your guy is sending mixed messages. I want to congratulate you on writing this: 8766 I can 8767 t just move over there with no where
to stay. 8767 Did you watch the Sex and the City episodes where Carrie gave up her life to move to Paris to be with her boyfriend? Yes, he was fabulous. She was still miserable. It wasn 8767 t her life. It was his. So let me ask you a
question, you gorgeous, fabulous one. Do you want to give up your life to move to a foreign country to NOT live with the man who wants you to live with him? (warm hug and smile)
I really hope for your sake she means it. I don 8767 t believe or trust any women anymore. I had hoped that some woman would probe me wrong as far as how I view all women. nope all women do is prove me right. I am so done with them it isn 8767 t funny. I went through this crap when I was and really thought it would be different now. the way women treat me, I am ready to eat a bullet because it just hurts so much.
I grew up in a church by the name of King 8767 s Park International Church, Many years ago, I attended a yearly church conference for college students called Campus Harvest (it 8767 s fantastic, I would go again and recommend it to anyone). This particular year, there was a seminar that I believe had to do with dating, singleness, and marriage. One of the speakers was Jim Lafoon, an amazing pastor, who is prophetic like you wouldn 8767 t believe. I don 8767 t remember a whole lot from it, I mean lets be honest it was 8+ years ago but there is one thing he said that I 8767 ll NEVER forget. He said if you are AFRAID God has called you to single-hood, then you haven 8767 t been.
To Kathryn, i certainly do feel that God is to Blame. And i am getting sick and tired of being very much alone all the time, and that is not fair at all. I am 59 years old, and as you can see it hurts me even more. I was married for 65 years before she Cheated on me, and i was a very caring and loving husband that was very much committed to her as well. But it wasn 8767 t good enough for her. Yes, God can certainly be a very rotten person too many of us, and i wish that he would stop hurting us when it comes to having a love life that he gave so many others.
It was love that made you propose to her on the second date it was love that got your married in less than three months since you met her first it was love that let your love mature in course of time. So saying that you did not love your wife when you got married is unagreeable.
Stay blessed 🙂
PS: My husband proposed to me on the very first date and we were married in less than 8 months. It 8767 s been almost 7 years and it seems the time passed by in the blink of an eye.
If someone I 8767 ve made a lifetime commitment to acts like an asshole, then that affects me far, far more. I now have to make a massive adjustment somewhere, either in what I will accept from a partner or in how I proceed with the rest of my life (in other words, without that person). Shit like that has much further-reaching consequences than just, 8775 Hey, I 8767 m really pissed at you. 8776
In October , David planned to kill Clayton on the day of his trial by driving a petrol-doused car into the police van Clayton would be in, thus causing an explosion that would kill them both. Gail, Nick and Sarah tried to stop David going through with his plan by locking him in the cellar of the Bistro until the trial was over. However, David was able to escape, by tricking Gail into thinking that he committed suicide. David then doused his car in petrol and drove away.
Seems perfect, right? Well there 8767 s a problem a pretty big problem. We aren 8767 t exclusive at this point him especially so. Around halfway between now and us first meeting, he met, and seemingly became interested in, another guy around my age whom he has subsequently met a few times. At first this didn 8767 t bother me at all, because I was doing it too and I hadn 8767 t started to develop feelings for him. My problem is that as my feelings are growing for him, he seems to be becoming more and more insensitive towards me.
Which brings me back to my main point that you should NOT choose to spend the rest of your life with someone until you KNOW they are the right person for you. This can 8767 t be done when you are wrapped up in honeymoon stage bliss, this can only be done with your head, using your heart only to choose what flaws/cons you can overlook or learn to live with, forever It takes TIME to learn the most important things about a person to decide if they 8767 re right for you.
I just want to say THANK YOU Ruthie. I am so grateful for this blog as it blesses my heart every time I read it! I definitely thought I would be married and a mom to a few by now but God had different plans. I love this quote, 8775 God 8767 s vision is different from our daydreams. 8776 It 8767 s true. God 8767 s vision for our lives may not look like we thought it would but there is so much to learn so much life to be lived so much to experience. I don 8767 t want to miss the joy in THIS SEASON of my life because I 8767 m longing so much for the next season. It 8767 s something I struggle with on a regular basis.
Hi Danelle! Thanks for sharing. It 8767 s easy to lack compassion, isn 8767 t it? I 8767 ve been hurt by and hurt others by 8775 suck it up 8776 , 8775 get over it 8776 , 8775 stop complaining 8776 messages. The truth is God never promises to make our lives easy (in fact following Christ means taking up your Cross or your instrument of death) but He does promise to never leave us & do everything for our future blessing. I spent too long thinking of God as a cruel taskmasker, when he instructs us to call him Abba Father and husband!
Hi, I 8767 m 78 I work a 9to5 everyday and I 8767 m in school full time, I recently met this guy he 8767 s 85 years old and comes off very strong since day one. I 8767 m confused though, he introduces me as his girlfriend to all of his friends and has recently asked me to go to Vegas with him and get married. He even tell me he loves me, and constantly showers me with lavish gift. I can 8767 t seem to find out his motives he has only known me about 8 days. what 8767 s the deal with this guy?
Hi Goddess, I am in a difficult situation any advice would be a great help. So, I have never done any online dating myself before. I have been seeing a guy for 8 months now. It’s going extremely well. He is a gentleman to me. He seems to trust me, has confided various private information to me. After nearly 7 months of dating he told me he really liked me, could we be exclusive and would I be his girlfriend.
It affirms everything that I 8767 ve ever written about sex and gender in a very logical, concrete manner. In short, women teach men how to treat them. And if, due to equality, birth-control, libido, societal acceptance, and insecurity, many women are willing to have sex with men who don 8767 t call, pay, commit, or make an effort, then those women are essentially teaching men that they do not have to behave well to procure sex.
My divorce would be factored into the high percentage of wives who file for divorce, but I did not want to be the one to file. He made it clear in word and action that he did not want to stay married, but he did not want to be the bad guy and actually file the paper, so I did. I always wonder what the actual percentage of divorces filed by women would be if you left out the divorces where the woman only filed because her husband was beating her or insisted upon cheating on her. I know of some women who divorced husbands much nicer than mine. I shake my head at that because I would have traded in a heart beat, but I also know of quite a few women who really didn 8767 t want to divorce but were practically forced to choose between that and their physical health (because of domestic violence or the threat of STDs from their unfaithful ex).
ex: When choosing a college (another important aspect of your life/future) you don 8767 t just pick one randomly out of a hat and after 5 minutes say OK, that 8767 s the one! and then commit to 9 years of your life at a place you don 8767 t know much about .You have to sort through a few options and figure out which one is right for you after careful consideration. Well, marriage isn 8767 t just a 9-yr school, it 8767 s The Rest Of Your Life! So the consideration put into who you should marry, should be a longggggggg time figuring out what is right for you