Posted: 2017-12-07 18:34
A week or so later I ask her out again and she told me she was busy. Thats fine. But then I asked her out two more times and she said she was busy. I know that she 8767 s upset at me for what I did when I was drunk so I told her that I genuinely was sorry and wanted to make it up to her and so I tried for one last ditch ask out and she finally said yes. I told her we were gonna go to the beach.
We aren 8767 t 8775 together 8776 although he is aware I like him. A couple days ago he said something nice to me and I wasn 8767 t really thinking and said 8775 don 8767 t say stuff like that to me it makes me think you 8767 re interested. 8776 He answered 8775 I didn 8767 t want to lead you on, Any other guy would use a girl. Atleast I didn 8767 t do that to. 8776 The day after that he started talking to me less and less. I figured he was busy so I let it go until I texted him just saying hey what 8767 s going on? he just said nothing. So I proceeded with the what 8767 s up with you? and what did I do? and he just said nothing was wrong with him and he felt I was being a bit obsessive. So like I said I apologized for it and let it be. But he hasn 8767 t talked to me since and I haven 8767 t tried to talk to him because I didn 8767 t want to make it worse. I realize I probably shouldn 8767 t have jumped on his case like that but now I don 8767 t know what I should do.
You 8767 re not being needy by confronting his bad behavior. You 8767 re being a door mat by not saying anything. He sees he can get away with treating you this way because you put up with it. I know maybe it 8767 s hard, but you should really let him know his behavior is a problem because you 8767 re not going to continue to be treated this way. You will come off as needy if you don 8767 t stand by your word after you tell him this.
I 8767 m so ex called me out of the blue a few weeks ago after not speaking for like 9 or 5 years. He explained to me that he had been looking for me for several years, and was finally able to make contact with me after involving a friend of his who is really good with computers. We spoke on the phone and texted each other everyday for like a week, then all of sudden he just stopped calling and texting. I guess I just don 8767 t understand why he would go through all of the trouble to find me and then just stop speaking to me like that. I never once asked when we were going to see each other again, I wasn 8767 t blowing up his phone or being 8775 needy 8776 . I don 8767 t know what to think or how to feel at this point!!!!What 8767 s the problem?!!! Why would a person do that?
I have known this guy for almost an year. Recently we confessed our feeling for each other but before confessing he used to text me alot and used to be very quick with his replies. Now suddenly he has started texting me less and there were few times when I confronted him to which he said he accepts his carelessness and will try not to repeat this again. But contrary to this he ends up doing the same thing. I asked him many times has anything changed about his feelings for me to which he says very confidently that he loves me and every aspect of it. What do u suggest, is he losing interest in me? Also, suggest me what should i do because I have also started texting him less.
HI Maria, I know this kind of thing feels crappy, but it wasn 8767 t necessarily a game, nor probably anything about you. There are a ton of reasons why a man may flake out: biz, another woman, health, his dog died you never know. Yes, it was jerky of him not to at least contact you and cancel, but unfortunately, this happens. Don 8767 t take it personally, ok? And know that he WAS attracted and did enjoy you. Otherwise, he never would have shown any interest. Keep being open and trying to meet men. There are so many terrific men out there! This is just one guy who didn 8767 t know you at all. Hugs, Bp
Your article was a big help for me to understand more on this whole texting and dating thing going on. Actually I have met a guy from online and were chatting for like 7 months. Finally we get to meet up for dinner and started hanging out for other activities like 8 times a week at least. We have been hanging out as such for the past 8 months and I am confuse now. I am not sure what he 8767 s looking for in us and I don 8767 t even know where this whole thing is headed to.
If you just start to date a man casually, if he texts you on special holidays like Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, does that mean he views us in a special way. I would have never initiated the texts because it seems so boyfriend/girlfriend and don 8767 t want to send the wrong message if we 8767 re casual. Granted he may be sending it to others but it did make me feel very special. They weren 8767 t short texts but nice and long enough to say thinking of you, hoping you are having a nice time with your family, etc. It made me happy.
He started talking to me, and right from the start it got quite intense, he complimented me, told me about his life etc. We kept pretty regular contact for about two months, talking every two days or so. He wanted to meet me, but as we lived about a hundred miles apart it was a little difficult. But he didn 8767 t seem daunted by that. He kept saying I should visit, he wanted me to visit. But when I asked for a concrete date, he was busy on the ones I suggested. And then eventually the dialogue tapered off.
Romantic love is real, but it does not endure. If you cannot feel loved without the 8766 lovey dovey 8767 things, you may find yourself in a world of heartbreak. I feel loved when my husband compliments my cooking, I feel loved when he gives the kids their baths so I don 8767 t have to, etc. etc. etc. That lovey dovey stuff was gone pretty quickly, but I wouldn 8767 t exchange what I have now which is the deep commitment that comes from real love for all the butterflies in the world.
Ummm neediness is a normal response to attachment stimuli. Read the book, 8775 Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment. 8776 Scientists have confirmed that neediness and protest-behavior are part of the normal attachment cycle. It is not maladaptive to be needy, no. In fact, it 8767 s unhealthy to be AVOIDANT. Avoidant attachment style in one, in fact, gives way to Anxious attachment style in the other. It 8767 s a viscous cycle, and one I 8767 m glad to have identified.
I met a guy everything seemed great. He introduced me to his bestfriend and also took me to his parents house for dinner., I was really happy because I thought he was really into me. We would text/talk daily.. Then about a week ago I call him no call back or text reply. I wait 8 days then text him 8775 hey 8776 he replies telling me that he just realized that he had an unsent message to me. I text him a couple days later and we talked on Friday. This was the first weekend since meeting him that he didnt make plans with me. He said he was busy so I did not want to bug him. Saturday no call no text. So sunday I text him 8775 Hey we haven 8767 t talked much whats going on? 8776 I wanted to know if his feelings have changed for me or if there was something going on in his life that he wanted to talk about. HE NEVER REPLIED! so the next morning I text him That I really thought he was decent enought man enough to just let me know what was going on. I know realize I never knew you. Goodbye I don 8767 t know what happened?! I 8767 m angry, hurt and confused :*(
I went to his apartment his mates were there but I did not see them he took me to his room as his mates were praying..
then we sat on his bed and watched
a movie and we spoke and laughed.. then he gave me his pillow and made sure I was comfortable.. he answered some calls (work) whilst being in his room and two outside his room.. he then opened the dessert got a plate and two spoons and was forcing me to also eat but I didn 8767 t and then he fed me with his spoon 🙂 lol..it was cute
Confuseddd af, It sounds to me like you have involved yourself with someone who is a social media guru. My advice is that you should just let it chill for awhile and see if he come to you. Maybe he just expects you to always be the one that will do all the work while he sits back and takes all the credit of not having to do anything, giving him an obvious extra ego boost. So get your ego boost and make him come to you. If he is sending you pics on snapchat and liking your pics on Facebook he is clearly interested. Just playing games is all. Girl you gotta play game right back at him and play it hard, sometimes thats how you win! Hope this helps!
to i 8767 ve got a question,
the guy i like texted me yesterday and then we had been talking for maybe like 7 hours and then he asked me who i liked. i basically did the whole like idk if ill tell you stuff for a will which i guess made him want to no more. so i ask him who he liked.. i swear i thought he liked me because in our conversation we were having earlier and was flirting with me,we had been hanging our at the pool earlier that day and he works at our icecream stand and i left to go back swimming and then i never came back before i left and he told me he i had. and so when he said he like no one and he swore and i didnt no what to say but eventually i told him that truth. and i said 8775 well i sorta like you 8776 my friends are saying he probbly feel asleep before i responded because it was late at night, but i think there just being good friends and not saying what they really think.
HI Tallgirl. No, don 8767 t ignore! Be more direct: I love hearing from you but texting doesn 8767 t feel like we 8767 re actually connecting. I 8767 d love it if you could also call me while you 8767 re on the road. Nothing long to say hello? Can we make that work? 8776 Put it out there, sister, and give him the chance to say Y or N. You 8767 ll learn a lot by his response. Here 8767 s some more: http:///talk-man-something-thats-bugging/ Bp
I don 8767 t know about the first part, why they text non stop for weeks everyday, then vanish for 5 days without a word. Probably Eric could answer that better than me. But when I do that with guys it 8767 s just because I go back and forth with lots of guys. So, sometimes I focus on someone else for a little bit. But then again, I 8767 m a chick- and most guys can only handle one love interest at a time. Love interest. Not booty call.
You are right: Technology is not what 8767 s preventing men from answering your texts
Doesn 8767 t matter if you think it 8767 s 8775 easy 8776 for another person to text you back. Doesn 8767 t matter if you think the other person 8775 should 8776 text you back. People are going to do as people do, and I *promise* you that if you want to be angry about what people do you 8767 ll find an infinite number of reasons why people make you angry
you could accept people as they are, stop choosing anger and blame as your response and choose to be happy, forgiving of people and appreciate the infinite reasons why men and women in the world are great.
Happiness in anywhere in your life is your choice and your responsibility.
Sometime ago I met a man and we went on a date which ended up being very good. We didn 8767 t have a repeat date due to a lack of communication. But recently we started texting and calling again. A few days ago I decided to take the lead and ask him out. He didn 8767 t respond initially but it was in the middle of the workday and I didn 8767 t expect it. When he did respond, he asked for more details and then he said he was getting ready to head to a farewell party. I texted the details and told him to let me know. After his party he contacted me and we chatted for a while. That was last night and my invite was for today. I didn 8767 t ask about my invitation until he was getting ready to sign off. He said he was tired and going to head to bed and I responded by asking if you could let me know about the invitation before he signed off. I didn 8767 t get an answer. So I told him to sleep well and let me know in the morning. It 8767 s not late afternoon and I haven 8767 t heard a word.
I met a guy through my job (he was/is a patient) and we played 8775 tag 8776 for over a year and we just recently exchanged numbers. We 8767 ve been texting everyday for about a month now but no date. In his first text he expressed that he wanted to 8775 catch up 8776 sometime. He 8767 s a great guy inside and out. Very busy though. Most wknds are occupied with helping others (family, church, etc) & during the week I have my 6 yr old son. We 8767 ve discussed my child, his niece/nephew, chk in daily but no date yet or even a mention of a date.
What can I do?? I would really hate to miss out on such a great guy and I 8767 d hate for him to miss out on a great woman. Please help!