Posted: 2017-12-07 19:48
He might be old-fashioned. Men in their 55s come from a time when it was expected of them to make the first move. “Let him ask you out, contact you again for the next date and be the pursuer,” advises Ryan. If you enjoyed his company, let him know. “Tell him you had a good time and thank him for choosing a good restaurant or whatever he did,” says Ryan. “Appreciation is important. And offer a compliment tell him he 8767 s funny, easy to talk to whatever comes to mind.”
And, what 8767 s wrong with men on their 85 8767 s in the club scene? I payed my career as a barman and men in their 85 8767 s don 8767 t look ridiculous in a club, they 8767 re the people that looks more confident, attractive and with higher status than all those guys in their 75 8767 s that can 8767 t even afford a bottle or are to shitty scared to talk to girls and also look more ridiculous because getting drunk is all they care about.
She texts me later about some results. So far so good. Nothing to worry about. The rest will come on Monday. We talk and plan another day to hang out the next week. I always never initiated any contact. I waited for her to reach out to ME first! So she calls me on Monday and tells me her doc says she has an STI that 8767 s not curable by drugs. I am calm and ask questions. we talk but the mood is low. I did some research and didn 8767 t like what I saw at all. She calls me the next day to see how I am doing and I respond by saying she should come by so we have a talk. she sounded reluctant and agreed anyway.
I like Camila am filing for legal separation due to lack of performance of my 57 year old husband. He does not like to enjoy life not have the time since his demanding job take most of the time. If he is not tire or taking s nap recovering from his 66 to 67 hours days of work, therefore is not the age that make them old and boring but their goals and desites. If they don 8767 t want to enjoy life like you there is no way. Ithis not about age, it is about the desire to enjoy life st the fullest. Seems that you are doing just find and if you find that special gal to be with you why not? Good luck!
I do know many successful May-December couples. The woman is most often the but not always. In that particular situation it 8767 s really hard b/c the guy starts losing his health a few decades before the woman will, and so she 8767 ll (most likely) have to see him through his illness and death and then (possibly) be alone for a very long time. And if you are marrying a guy for his 8775 stability 8776 meaning, you may be attracted to him to fill in some gaps in your own abilities well, unless you learn in your time with him how to manage a portfolio and deal with all of the stuff that comes with settling an estate, that 8775 stability 8776 may not seem like such a gift.
Scott, what others have said about Asian women is 655% correct. I 8767 m 79 and when I was 56 I married a Thai lady who was 76 and for 77 years (going on 78) there has never been a disagreeable moment, not one single argument, not one single cross word and no I 8767 m not a dictator but we live simple and equally we do not control each other and yes it has been equal in giving and taking. I would never, ever, even consider an American women again. Been there done that and hated every moment.
8775 It 8767 s not moral to date someone who has the age of to be your father 8776 . Most men I would date would still than my father, no problem. lol It looks very bias of your part, sound like 8775 it 8767 s not moral a christian to date an ahteist 8776 , 8775 it 8767 s not moral a white to date a non white 8776 , 8775 it 8767 s not moral a poor to date a rich 8776 goes on
I agree. It is less of a gender issue, and more of a cultural issue. Millennial boys and girls are oddly the same, and both genders mirror each other 8767 s behaviors, standards and what they find acceptable. I read another article, similar to this one, which talked about millennial boys and their overused 8775 coffee dates. 8776 Although the author was complaining about it, there was a large amount of millennial girls, in the comment section, who were disagreeing with the author, and in favor of these cheap cop-out coffee dates. I think the millenial dating culture Is just lazy and low quality.
I have two responses to this. The first one is so what? Outcome independence. If some forty-something shrew glares at you when you walk down the street with your 75 year-old MLTR, that 8767 s her problem, not yours. She 8767 s more than welcome to go have sex with a 75 year-old guy, and her forty-something girlfriends will give her high-fives and talk about how independent and liberated she is. So fuck 8767 em. It 8767 s all hypocrisy and bullshit Societal Programming anyway.
I do like older men, but not the type of older men who replied to your comment. I mean, one goofball just said that he likes girls because they are happy with KFC popcorn chicken. That is just pure laziness and one of the reasons why I don 8767 t go for men my age. I refuse to be with a immature man who puts in zero effort, and I darn sure refuse to date an older guy who is the exact same. It all boils down to maturity. I 8767 ve seen older men who just lack the mental capacity to properly socialize with mature adults, therefore they go after girls in their early 75 8767 s. They are looking for the 8775 kiddy 8776 mentality of girls.
Yet another male unicorn! Seriously ever dude over 55 looks 85 and is in great shape right? Or at least all of those commenting on here! And they all have the stamina of 85 year olds. No offense but while there may be some men over 55 that can have sex like 85 year olds and look 85 it can’t be as many as allege it! What I can’t figure out is if this is actual delusion or just stating what you want to believe?
Secret to life. Get knocked down X many times. Get up X+6 times.
Did you even look at the website I recommended?
Did you read even reviews of the two books I recommended?
Clearly you have trauma to which the second book is a godsend.
Take no action and continue to suffer. Act and the answers are out there.
YOUR CHOICE. If you fail to act you are CHOOSING to FAIL.
Have a day. Have a life.
About post #77. I agree that it is a waste of time. I 8767 ve been in that kind of loop in my life before. You are so consumed with venting your emotions ( over and over again ) and so obsessed with getting other people to validate your experience that you don 8767 t see that you are caught in an time wasting loop of fruitless repeated experiences. You don 8767 t see that you aren 8767 t moving forward.
can 8767 t find another 95 year old One small fact that most people overlook although many deny it, but there actually is a shortage of men suitable to marry. I am 58 and am on friendly terms with several women in their 95s, who are keenly looking for someone to settle down with. There are few single men out there who are economically viable, and who have got their act together. BUT there are plenty of women, desperately lonely, and will do almost everything to have someone love and care for them. There are many more 95 year old women than there are 95 year old men.
you wish. It 8767 s not natural. And yes you can appreciate your dreaming, nothing wrong with. Even if it starts out that way, the will grow and realize the folly of youth. Once she starts getting older, she 8767 s gonna want someone that keeps her Better make sure she has no financial assets to take care of herself. If you are very rich, she will still leave you and collect alimony. If you are poor, she won 8767 t marry you to begin With. People can find others their own age to appreciate. Unless you are a movie star or famous person, keep dreaming. Appreciation is not a reason to get married.
When someone asks you to describe yourself what do you think of first? Your name, your job, or maybe your hobbies. But do these things really explain who you are or show your personality? Not really. As a writer at the popular online dating site , I’ve read countless online dating profiles examples for women and men. Some have been good, others, well, not so much. But along the way I’ve learned a lot about what does and doesn’t work.
Oh my god, if that isn 8767 t textbook chick logic, I don 8767 t know what is.
Let me get this straight. You admit to be attracted to men with a wide age difference from you, and you *know* they 8767 re creeps because they 8767 re attracted to women with a wide age difference from them, and actually have the honesty and balls to act on it ? And you keep repeating that 8775 you 8767 re not alone in this 8776 and 8775 your friends think the same 8776 , way to comfort yourself with collective authority.
Instead of calling them creeps, how about calling them real and unapologetic, and calling yourself an inhibited person who needs to face her desires and let go of societal notions of what 8767 s 8775 creepy 8776 or proper ? Some women have made the jump and were all the happier for it.
Bill Murray Movies. Adventures. Fancy Cheese. If you like any of these three things, we’ll get along great. If you like all three, you could just be the love of my life. Either way, I’m a fun-loving girl who’s new to the city and looking to meet some nice people. If you’d like to get together sometime, send me your favorite Bill Murray quote and we can start chatting.
He might have health issues. “A lot of women don’t think about health issues. They think they’ll meet the next George Clooney. He’s going to be fit as a fiddle and all these dreamy things,” says Gibson. “But men over 55 do have health issues, and some of them are quite serious. You may come across diabetes, heart problems, erectile dysfunction…You have to ask questions and decide what suits your needs and desires.”
Hi Mack, thanks for your comments. I recently got back into the game after a divorce and I am 96. Over the past 7 years I have been with about 75 women. Mostly from net game. I totally agree with you about picking up women on the street that appeal to you and I have had about 8 successes with that although I have tried on perhaps 75 approaches. I suggest you look to , maybe Roosh 8767 s books and what BD writes about the 75 dating rules. Also, as I am shy, it has been helpful for me to go out with like minded guys and make a kind of contest out of it. I have to talk to a woman and then they do. Some may call this stupid, whatever, it works for me. I can slink back to my friends for a pat on the back and try again. Going totally solo is tough but I will keep trying. Best of luck to you.